PACT Couples Therapy: Your Pathway to Stronger Connections

Relationships play a pivotal role in our lives, shaping our happiness, emotional well-being, and overall satisfaction. However, maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship can sometimes prove challenging, as patterns of communication, conflict, and unresolved issues can create barriers between partners. This is where PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) comes into play, offering a fresh perspective and empowering couples to transform their relationships. In today's blog post, we will explore the incredible benefits and unique approach of PACT couples therapy.

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Elizabeth Earnshaw
The Power of Emotionally Focused Therapy: Transforming Relationships

As human beings, our emotional well-being often depends heavily on the quality of our relationships. Whether it's our significant other, family members, or close friends, the way we connect with others can have a profound impact on our overall happiness and life satisfaction. That's where Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) comes into play – a powerful therapeutic approach that aims to transform relationships by tapping into our deepest emotions.

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Elizabeth Earnshaw
The Power Of Discernment Therapy

Life is full of choices. Some decisions we make have little consequence, but others shape the course of our lives in significant ways. Deciding whether or not to end a relationship is one of those decisions. That's where discernment therapy comes in.

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Elizabeth Earnshaw
When seeking closure is really about anxiety

Breakups are emotionally draining, leaving us with a myriad of unanswered questions, unresolved emotions, and lingering doubts. It's this uncertainty that fuels anxiety and ignites the need for closure. Anxiety thrives on uncertainty, demanding answers to questions like, "What went wrong?" or "Why did this happen?" Seeking closure becomes a way to alleviate anxiety and gain a sense of control over the situation, allowing for emotional healing to begin.

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Elizabeth Earnshaw
Tis the Season to be Kinder to Yourself

It may not be the most wonderful time of the year for everyone. In fact, it is quite common for difficult feelings to peak during this season. A study conducted by the American Psychological Association found that 38% of people reported feeling an increase in stress associated with financial pressure, family gatherings and increased obligations around the holidays.

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"No matter what I say, it's always wrong" : The Double Bind

Double binds are intricate and often emotionally charged communication situations that can leave individuals feeling perplexed and anxious. They occur when conflicting messages are conveyed, causing uncertainty in the recipient about which message to believe. What makes double binds particularly challenging is that, regardless of the response chosen, it often seems to be the wrong one. Let's explore this concept further through the lens of Olivia's experience with her mother.

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How to use your health insurance to cover therapy costs

If you have health insurance, there is a good chance that your policy will cover at least part of the cost of therapy sessions. The first step is to check your insurance policy to see if mental health services are covered. If they are, you should find out what your co-pay or deductible is for each session. Once you have this information, you can search for a therapist who is in your insurance network. You can usually find a list of in-network providers on your insurance company’s website or by calling the customer service number on your insurance card. When you make your first appointment with a therapist, be sure to let them know that you have insurance and ask if they accept your plan. At the end of each session, you will need to pay your co-pay or the full cost of the session if you have not yet met your deductible. Your therapist will then bill your insurance company for the remainder of the cost.

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Bids for Connection

A part of relationship building (and maintaining) and requires two actions - attention seeking and responding to that need. Often, when we think of attention seeking it is described in a negative light - right alongside calling people “needy”. However, healthy relationships are actually based on seeking attention from other people.

Human beings do this all day long, at different frequencies, with strangers and intimate connections alike. It is how relationships are first built (smiling at someone new in the school cafeteria) and how they are maintained (telling your partner about your day when you get home from work so they know about you).

In Gottman Method couples therapy, we call the process of seeking attention in order to build connection a “bid for connection”.

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How to Use Insurance with Out Of Network Therapists

If you’re looking to start therapy you might have noticed that many of the therapists you want to work with are not in your insurance companies “network”. This can feel limiting if you want to use your insurance benefits to cover therapy costs. In this article, we will talk about what it means to be “out of network” and how to find out if your insurance will still cover the costs of therapy.

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Elizabeth Earnshaw